Welcome
This is a space for honesty so I’d like to begin in that vein.
If you are only just starting your journey to self actualisation and healing, I am not the person for you. I help men who have tried everything else and found no solace in the skin-deep work. For that reason, the work I do goes deep.
The men I work with have realised their life needs to change. For some that realisation comes through a discontentment of life, or something is missing inside. It may be the end of a relationship and knowing that you didn’t act in the way you wanted to. Maybe you never got life off the ground, leaving you feeling stuck and trapped or you’ve been following what society told you it is to be a man and found yourself disillusioned, disconnected and longing for something more.
There is more to life than what you have. I help you overcome your deepest fears, pains and regrets and learn the skills you need to grow into your true self and become a leader in your own life.
This is difficult work, becoming your full self requires facing all of you head on and I’m here to guide you, support you and help you become a man living a full, rich and fulfilling life.
Let’s do this together
NiallÂ
Find out more“After years of searching through therapy, plant medicine, and self-help, working with Niall finally unlocked what I truly needed.
I've made a safe home in my body, and ive come home to myself. Niall understood me completely and, in a way, gave me permission to live.”
Chris Walton
I help you with
Healing Past Trauma
 I help you confront and heal deep-rooted wounds, freeing you from the past that holds you back.
Inner Child Integration
I guide you in reconnecting with your inner child, nurturing the parts of you that were neglected or harmed.
Emotional Mastery
I teach you how to regulate your emotions, break free from reactive patterns, and embrace emotional maturity.
Masculine Depth & Presence
I support you in stepping fully into your masculine power, leading your life with clarity, purpose, and confidence.
Creating Meaningful Relationships
I help you cultivate deeper, more meaningful connections — with yourself, your partner, and the world around you.
Are you ready for deep transformation?
This is for men who are ready to do the deep, transformative work — those who have tried everything else and found it insufficient. It's for men who want to heal old wounds, confront their shadows, and step into a life of purpose and power.
If you feel stuck, lost, or disconnected from the man you were meant to be, this mentorship is for you. It's for those who are tired of existing in a cycle and are now ready to step into a new chapter, one grounded in authenticity, confidence, and clarity.
Find out moreI help you three fold
HealÂ
Cultivate the ground of yourself. This is the foundation of building a beautiful life.
Many of us have not fully processed our childhood wounds. We may have processed it intellectually, but we haven't actually processed and integrated it through the body so we continue the same patterns and ways of being.
Unprocessed childhood trauma keeps us ungrounded, anxious and distracted. I help you process this trauma to build new ground, safety and presence in life.
When a man has healed and built his base, he can sharpen..
SharpenÂ
Sharpen your sword everyday. Learn the skills and tools you need to be a dynamic, full-spectrum man
A skilled man knows himself and has his tools at the ready. He knows himself beyond the surface – he knows his depths, his shadows, how he works, what makes him tick and his triggers. He is able to express his boundaries, needs and his life's desires. He is unapologetic in who he is.Â
I help you learn the skills of being a dynamic man. Emotionally aware, deeply present, financially responsible with the skills to create deep intimate relationships with other people and build a life you are proud of.
When we have our base and tools, then we can lead..
LeadÂ
Activate the adult man inside of you and leading yourself every day towards a greater vision of your life.
An activated man with a vision knows why he is getting up in the morning. He is passionate and driven. He prioritises his life around creating a future that he desires.
This man creates beauty in the world, he creates safety for himself and the people around him. He takes care of his own world so that he is available for the people in his life that he cares about.
He has become a self-actualised man.
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1:1 Mentorship Building your life from the ground up
Many men reach a point in their lives when they realise they need to grow up. It looks differently for every man. For some it is a discontentment of life, there must be more to life. For some its the end of a relationship and a knowing that he didn’t act in the way he wanted to. For others its never getting their life off the ground, feeling stuck and trapped and for others again they followed that society told them it is to be a man and found themselves disillusioned, disconnected and longing for something more.
Our past is the ground of who we are as men.
I get it was there too. I spent 20 years working on myself but things only changed when I faced the past, took care of my inner child and started working everyday to build a life I was truly proud of. I tried to move forward by ignoring my past and life brought me to my knees again and gain until I faced the past.
The truth is we can build beautiful lives and relationships we are proud of, business and jobs that support us. But many of us have never fully faced our past, our inner child is ignored and many of us never received guidance or support of how to be a healthy and whole man.
I’m here to support you to step into this journey of wholeness. Facing all of who you are and learning the skills to radically change your life and relationship.
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This is a big commitment, and it will change your life
Getting out from where you are now takes time, patience and a deep commitment to change. I'm in it with you, as an exclusive private client, I will be prioritising you energetically and spiritually throughout our time working together.Â
I’m here to guide you on your path, meeting you exactly where you are on your life’s journey. Whatever you bring to our time together is sacred and we’ll explore it with openness and presence. Through both spiritual insight and practical tools, I’ll help illuminate the landscape of your consciousness and support you as you step into your manhood.
I know what's possible and, if you're ready, I'm here to help you make the change you want in your life.
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 Private mentoring with Niall is available in 3- or 6-month packages, where you meet with Niall three times a month for 90 minutes over zoom.
The full cost of the package is €2400 for 3 months or €4400 for 6 months.
- Three 90 min calls per month on Zoom
- Tailored practices, meditations and journalling between sessions.
- Full Telegram support for the duration of your container.
- Personalized practices and meditations
- Access to full library of practices and teachings
Payment plans are available to help you access this important support in a way that suits your budget.
Book your callWhat men are saying
Robert Gahan
The Decision to reach out to Niall and begin working with him has been one of the most important decisions I've ever made.
Niall is the mentor and teacher I didn't know I needed he taught me more about myself in six months than I learned about myself in the past five years. I will be forever grateful for Niall's work and I would recommend anyone who is searching for more out of life and out of themselves to take a chance.
Stefan Mc Donnell
Prior to working with Niall I was experiencing some problems with my sexual wellbeing which led to a lot of stress, anxiety and lack of confidence.
Within only a few weeks of working together started to feel notable changes in myself, I feel way more energised and most importantly I began getting through the problems I was having. Three months later I feel I've done a full 180, I've overcome the problems I was having and I feel strong and confident in myself again!
Niall has an extensive knowledge around sexual wellbeing and brings so much energy and enthusiasm to his work which made things easy for me. For any men experiencing similar issues I would highly recommend getting in touch with him.
Cathal Ă“ Baoill
Over the past eight months, Niall Graham has been an extraordinary mentor, guiding me through some of the most challenging periods of my life. His support has been nothing short of transformative.
Under Niall’s guidance and direction, I built a relationship with my inner child which was non-existent prior to this program. As such, I have a better understanding of him now. He is ever present in me, which helps me to live a freer and happier life. This process has helped me tackle perfectionism, negative self-talk, limiting beliefs, imposter syndrome and the need for external validation.
Niall's guidance has transformed me into a "ruthless warrior with a big heart." I now have a greater understanding of myself and have taken ownership of my internal issues. This has led to a significant decrease in my anxiety and a newfound sense of freedom and happiness.
How much time do I need to commit to this?
This is big financial commitment, can you guarantee results?
I've done lots of mens work, what makes your work different?
Im new to this journey, is this container suitable for beginners?
Im interested but have some more questions before I decide?
Does this programme follow a format?
Do you work with women or couples?
Will I become man through this programme?
Ready for more?
Many men have a crisis of identity – What is it to be a man? How am I supposed to be? What is my role in relationship? And many other questions.
I created this podcast to address this subject as an Irish man, born of this land, who has spent many years struggling with his identity of being an Irishman. We traverse many subjects and ultimately I believe we start to heal and weave what it is to be a healthy man on this land both culturally and individually.
Listen now on Spotify and YouTube.
I support men to take back control of their lives, through deep healing and integration of their inner child, facing their shadows and learning to step fully into their masculine presence and leadership.
There is a profound shift when a man realises he is the creator of his own life. He commits to healing his past and devotes himself to building a life and a relationship he is proud of.
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